Ask planner

Lob the ask.

Drop the person, mutuals, and vibe. Get a clean angle and a short ask you send yourself.

Best lob

Mutual-first, no pressure.

Lead with the shared context, keep it specific, and make the yes/no easy.

Draft ask

Hey, random but fair question: would you be down to grab coffee this week? No pressure either way.

No auto-send No pretending to be someone else No pressure loops No minors You send manually