Add the person and mutuals.
Use handles, names, and the actual context you have.
Mutual-first intro plans
LobDate
Build a respectful ask to a real mutual: who to ask, what to say, and where to leave an easy out. No cold DM cosplay, no automated outreach, no pressure loop.
Find the clean bridge.
The planner turns public cues into a short ask.
Send like a person.
Manual copy, low pressure, and a clear stop line.
Do not fumble the boundary
The product is for respectful intros, not pursuit.
- Everyone involved must be 18+
- No impersonation or private-data lookup
- No automated sending or repeated follow-ups
- Public context only